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The First Session after the Affair from Ellyn Bader & Peter Pearson, Ph.D.

The First Session after the Affair Managing the Crisis of Infidelity A Demonstration Video from Ellyn Bader & Peter Pearson, Ph.D.

Faculty:Ellyn Bader | Peter Pearson, Ph.D.

Duration:2 Hours 02 Minutes | Format:Audio and Video

Archive : The First Session after the Affair from Ellyn Bader & Peter Pearson, Ph.D.

Outline:

Benefits of Significant Change Partner Resistance Self-Difference Client Guilt and Shame Separating the Conflicts

Description:

Meet Arielle and Dominic. Their partnership is barely hanging on. While Dominic has regularly cheated on Arielle, she still views him as the guy she wants to wed and have a family with.

This rigorous therapy session will take you on an emotional roller coaster; it will be tough to conduct and terrible to observe. Observe Arielle and Dominic’s severe suffering and how, with the appropriate attitude, their shame and guilt may be transformed and used to advance each of them.

Watch how Peter Pearson and Ellyn Bader deftly navigate the various difficulties therapists face in the stormy first session following infidelity:

Stay away from the cycle of blame and humiliation
Stop trying to fast resolve issues, which is a crucial error.
Avoid collapsing under extreme emotional stress.
Without alienating either partner, elicit awareness and responsibility.

You won’t regret joining Ellyn and Pete on this adventure. You will discover techniques to gently assist your clients in peeling back the difficult layers of denial and deceit in order to make room for the infant stages of awareness, compassion, and healing.

What is HYPNOSIS – NLP?

Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) is a technique used to provide clients with the tools to overcome certain life obstacles. NLP is in short, a way of helping people help themselves to reach a state of excellence, happiness and peace of mind.

NLP is a learning model devised by two American academics (Dr Richard Bandler and John Grinder) in the early 70s, who were fascinated by the relationship between language behaviour and excellence. They believed that by analysing the unconscious linguistic techniques used by successful people, they could produce ‘a recipe for excellence’ in which other people could consciously learn to apply said ‘successful techniques’.

What is NLP?

NLP stands for neuro-linguistic programming.

Neuro – All of our experience is gained from the neurological processes that govern our five senses: taste, touch, smell, sight and sound.

Linguistic – We make sense of these experiences through a set of filters, including language. The language we use can also affect the way we experience things.

Programming – This is a way of controlling the outcome of something. A person can use NLP to ‘predetermine excellence’ by adjusting the language we use.

To break it down, the science aspect is the process of extracting and learning the techniques. The art aspect is the act of applying the techniques to our own lives.

There are four ways NLP techniques are most commonly used:

to teach effective communication
to ensure continual personal development
to enhance learning
to encourage a greater enjoyment in life
NLP is used to teach us how changing our perception of the world can lead us to adjust and adapt our behaviours to live the life we want.

NLP and hypnotherapy

Hypnotherapists aim to induce a relaxed and receptive state (trance) in their clients in order to access the subconscious. Many of the obstacles that prohibit or limit a person’s experiences are deeply embedded in the subconscious, so by accessing the thought processes that usually remain hidden, hypnotherapists can work with clients to change the restrictive thought pattern and make room for positive development.

An NLP practitioner will look at your attitude, your language and how you use it, your understanding of relationships and your ability to build rapport, as well as the physical and emotional states that are best for accomplishing a task. Effective communication and perception of others and ourselves, will also be key focuses. All of these will be analysed and examined by the professional, so that a strategy for improving understanding, motivation, learning and memory can be formed.

Many hypnotherapists train in NLP to help improve their ability to communicate more effectively with their clients, as well as to help their clients communicate more effectively with themselves.

Salepage : The First Session after the Affair from Ellyn Bader & Peter Pearson, Ph.D.